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Advice column aficionados Han and Matt re-answer the greatest questions from other advice columns and podcasts as well as fielding new questions with a little help from their cats.

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Apr 9, 2018

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of April 1st, 2018, and beyond, including:

  1. Captain Awkward: "When people want you to do complicated & unethical things, it’s okay to say no!"
  2. Ask a Fuck Up: "Can People Change?"
  3. Ask Polly: "I Love My Boyfriend, But I Can’t Stop Cheating!"
  4. Dear Prudence: "How Do I Talk to a Loud Co-Worker?"
  5. Ask a Manager: "A Co-worker Left Me an Anonymous Note … and a Pacifier"
  6. Ask Amy: "Cat Has First Dibs on the Buffet"
  7. Listener Marenthius, Reanimator of Flora: "How Do I Ask My Partner to Step It Up When Their Depression Is Worse Than Mine Right Now But I'm Still Majorly Struggling?"

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