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Advice column aficionados Han and Matt re-answer the greatest questions from other advice columns and podcasts as well as fielding new questions with a little help from their cats.

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Aug 1, 2018

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of July 22nd, 2018, and beyond, including:

  1. Matt Notes (Skip 5 minutes ahead if the below is not interesting to you!)
    • Fantastical names: Are a Patron-Only perk going forward
    • Leader Board: Will be retired on August 31st
    • Emails: Can no longer all be responded to due to volume 
  2. Asking for a Friend: "My Houseguest Was a Brocialist Jerk. How Should I Respond?"
  3. Dear Wendy: "My New Boyfriend is Mad That My Male Roommates See Me Naked"
  4. Carolyn Hax: "When a friend talks down to you, should you speak up to her?"
  5. Baggage Check: "A friendship on the critical list?"
  6. Miss Manners: "In-laws can't seem to leave the camo at home"
  7. Dear Prudence: "My Best Friend’s Son Is Stalking My Daughter—and My Friend Calls It Puppy Love"
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  9. Listener Norgowyn, Doomsayer of The Night's Fall: "How Do I Let My Friends and Family Know That My Moving Away Has Nothing to do With Them?"
  10. Shoutout to MBMBaM 416: "How Do I Respond to People Who Ask 'Is This a Sex Thing' About my Polyamorous Relationships?"
  11. Shoutout to Dear Harriette: "I'm Tired of People Telling Me How Much Better I Look Now That I've Lost Weight"
  12. Shoutout to Vice: "Labeling People Video Game 'Addicts' Could Be a Massive Mistake"
  13. Shoutout to Captain Awkward: "Guest Post by Leah Chibe: Talking To Your Kids About Scary Things In The News"
  14. Hollywood: "Natalie Portman in talks to play warring twin sisters in advice columnist biopic"
  15. Advice Column Alert: "Queer Abby" on INTO
  16. Advice Column Alert: "Dear Pepper" on The New Yorker
  17. Advice Column Alert: "Ask the Astro Poets" on W Magazine
  18. Advice Column Alert: "Dear Graham Norton" on The Telegraph
  19. Advice Column Alert: "Hola Papi!" on

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