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Advice column aficionados Han and Matt re-answer the greatest questions from other advice columns and podcasts as well as fielding new questions with a little help from their cats.

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Mar 5, 2018

As a sequel to Han and Matt Teach Poly 101, the Know-It-Alls answer six listener questions on the topics of open relationships, ethical nonmonogamy, and polyamory. This time, we're joined by Han's girlfriend Liz as our special guest to help us with this fresh set of tricky relationship questions:

  1. Listener Kema, Emissary of the Void: "How Do I Experiment with Dating People Without Feeling Like I'm Misleading Them?"
  2. Listener Sonnet: "How Much Should I Tell My Primary Partner About My Romantic Status With My Secondary Partner?"
  3. Listener Sarah: "How Do I Find Polyamorous Friends That I Don't Necessarily Want to Date?"
  4. Listener Zelphyr, Saltborn Sovereign: "How Do My Partner and I Harmonize Our Different Styles of Non-Monogamy?"
  5. Listener Aurora, Dark Huntress: "My Husband Depends on Me and My Boyfriend Financially, but I've Been Contemplating Divorce. What Do I Do?"
  6. Listener Uldrek the Resilient: "Should My Partner and I Open Our Relationship to Date Our Best Friends (Who Are Also Partners)?"
  7. Bonus: Chris Fleming: "Polyamorous"

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