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Advice column aficionados Han and Matt re-answer the greatest questions from other advice columns and podcasts as well as fielding new questions with a little help from their cats.

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Jan 16, 2019

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of January 6th, 2019, and beyond, including:

  1. r/amitheasshole: "AITA for very rarely/almost never wanting to go to restaurants because my girlfriend makes food that's just as good, if not better, than restaurant food?"
  2. [Content Warning: cancer] Ask a Manager: "my coworkers complained that the look of my breasts post-mastectomy is making them uncomfortable"
  3. Dear Abby: "Mom Confesses To Undermining Scholar's Dream Of Art School"
  4. [Content Warning: body shaming] Damage Control: "Can I tell my overweight friend I’m worried about his health?"
  5. Listener Winner Winner Chicken Dinner: "Am I Ruining Game Night by Winning Every Game?"
  6. [Content Warning: sexual assault] Listener The Mellow Medusa: "Should I Say Something About My Friend's Husband Having Groped Me at a Party?"
  7. Listener Dabrius the Decapitator: "My Depressed Dad Keeps Withdrawing From Everyone's Lives and I Don't Know What More I Can Do"
  8. Update from Listener Hillary: "How Do You Set Yourself Up for Success When Starting a New Job?"
  9. Shoutout to Ask The Salty Waitress: "My favorite restaurant won’t allow kids after 5 p.m."
  10. Shoutout to Ask a Manager: "my office mate asks me 75 questions a day — literally"
  11. Shoutout to Carolyn Hax: "Hubby’s unilateral decisions should have unilateral consequences"

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