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Advice column aficionados Han and Matt re-answer the greatest questions from other advice columns and podcasts as well as fielding new questions with a little help from their cats.

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May 1, 2019

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of April 21st, 2019, and beyond, including:

    • San Francisco Meetup: May 19th, time/location tbd
    • Portland Meetup: May 27th, time/location tbd
    • Seattle Meetup: May 30th, time/location tbd
  2. Miss Conduct: "This children's birthday party has a cover charge"
  3. Ask Natalie: "Found out your engagement ring is a fake?"
  4. Care and Feeding: "Who the Heck Is Patrick?"
  5. Carolyn Hax: "Teacher frets that white Christian parents will whine about helping Muslim kids"
  6. Ask a Manager: "my office wants us to celebrate by wearing pink and blue by gender"
  7. Judge John Hodgman: "On Taco Bell Pilgrimages"
  8. Listener Lephra, Master Manipulator: "My Partner and I Are Exploring Ethical Nonmonogamy for the First Time and I Feel... Fine?"
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  10. r/AmItheAsshole: "WIBTA if I were to dump my boyfriend for being a snobby movie critic?"
  11. Shoutout to Dear Urban Diplomat: "Help! My neighbour's kid has some serious Fortnite rage"
  12. Shoutout to Dear Ally: "How do I improve compensation fairness at my company?"
  13. Shoutout to Ask a Manager: "how much money do you make?"
  14. Shoutout to Ask a Manager: "updates: the managers peeing dog"
  15. Shoutout to Interesting Engineering: "Bearded Men Harbour Significantly More Microbes Than Dogs"
  16. Shoutout to Ask a Queer Chick: "How Can I Get Excited About My Sex Life With My Girlfriend?"
  17. Advice Column Alert: "Is This Normal" on Thrive Global

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