Preview Mode Links will not work in preview mode

Advice column aficionados Han and Matt re-answer the greatest questions from other advice columns and podcasts as well as fielding new questions with a little help from their cats.

Learn more at Han and Matt Know It All Dot Com.

Mar 12, 2018

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of March 4th, 2018, and beyond, including:

  1. Ask APW: "My Best Friend Just Un-Invited My Husband to Her Destination Wedding"
  2. Dear Prudence: "I'm Tired of Being My Boyfriend's Mother. Help!"
  3. Ask Amy: "Cat at Root of Couple's Issues"
  4. Ask A Manager: "Was I Wrong to Call Out My Coworker for Using the Word 'Fight' In Her Cancer Struggle?"
    • 1st Comment, from 'suspension retention'
  5. Ask Annalisa Barbieri: "My Boyfriend Kissed Another Man: Does That Mean He's Gay?"
  6. Sexual Healing: "My Girlfriend Masturbates After We Have Sex. Why?"
  7. Carolyn Hax: "A Poisoned Relationship"
  8. Listener Tamisril, Desolater of the Bezirh Highlands: "My Assistant Stopped Talking to Me as Soon as She Realized I’m Hella Queer!"

Submit your favorite questions or questions you may have for the podcast to, anonymously at, or to for a Han-only written answer on

Looking to support us? Desperately in need of a fantastical alter-ego? You can become a Patreon supporter and donate to us monthly for all kinds of sweet perks!