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Advice column aficionados Han and Matt re-answer the greatest questions from other advice columns and podcasts as well as fielding new questions with a little help from their cats.

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May 14, 2018

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of May 6th, 2018, and beyond, including:

  1. Ask a Manager: "My Coworker Has a Podcast About Sex"
  2. Ask Dr. NerdLove: "My Boyfriend Is Spying On Other Women"
  3. Asking for a Friend: "We’re White. Can We Adopt a Black Child?"
  4. Dear Abby: "Couple Disagrees On Etiquette Of Curating Their Bathroom Art"
  5. r/relationships: "I (28f) found out my husband (28m) is getting 3 expensive, sugary coffee drinks a day. Me approaching him caused an angry tirade about how I ruined his life. How to recover from this?"
  6. Ask APW: "Is It Un-Feminist to Want to Lose Weight for My Wedding?"
  7. Listener Heather: "Help! Is Being Polyamorous Making Me Attractive to Creeps?"

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