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Advice column aficionados Han and Matt re-answer the greatest questions from other advice columns and podcasts as well as fielding new questions with a little help from their cats.

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Jun 14, 2018

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of June 3rd, 2018, and beyond, including:

  1. Captain Awkward: "Dudebro won't stop bugging me about another dudebro. I JUST WANNA DO MY JOB."
  2. Ask APW: "What Can I Do About A Partner Who Isn't Excited To Marry Me?"
  3. Carolyn Hax: "Mocking Yourself Isn't an Invitation for Others to Pile On"
  4. Dear Fuck-Up: "I Don't Think My Friend's Chronic Illness Is Real"
  5. Shout-Out to Ask a Manager: "My Coworkers Keep Trying to Find out What My Chronic Illness Is"
  6. Ask a Manager: "Someone Spends an Hour a Day Putting on Makeup in Our Shared Bathroom"
  7. NOTE: Content Warning (Suicide and Domestic Abuse) from 37.01 through 54.04)
  8. Listener The Anonymous One: "My Online Friend Might Need Mental Health Intervention And I Don't Know What To Do"
  9. Listener Machete Alice Has Additional Advice About Group Therapy Confidentially Breach
  10. Listener Desdemona & Another Reminder That Your Partner Threatening Suicide If You Leave Them Is Unconscionable and Not Your Fault
  11. Listener Clogger Has Words and Resources for LGBTQ Survivors in Abusive Relationships
  12. Listener Bianca Has a Book They Recommend for Those Of Us Who Know Women in Abusive Relationships
  13. Advice Column Alert: "Find Your Fit" on Autostraddle
  14. Advice Column Alert: "Tough Love" on Outside Online
  15. Shoutout to Tough Love: "What to Do When Your Husband Is More Into Gaming Than Sex"
  16. Advice Column Alert: "Ask Real Estate" on NYT
  17. Shoutout to Dear Abby's $5,000 College Columnist Scholarship contest
  18. Shoutout to Asking for a Friend: "I Think My Friend Is a Jordan Peterson Fan. What Should I Do?"
  19. Shoutout to Ask a Manager, Who Is Now On BBC Radio!

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