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Advice column aficionados Han and Matt re-answer the greatest questions from other advice columns and podcasts as well as fielding new questions with a little help from their cats.

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Jun 21, 2018

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of June 11th, 2018, and beyond, including:

  1. On Bodily Autonomy:
  2. Ask Ellie: "I don't feel bad enough to end the affair I'm having"
  3. Savage Love: "Guy Alarmed, Yeah, By Younger Boyfriend's Interest"
  4. Ask a Manager: "my coworker interrupts my work to ask why I look so serious"
  5. r/relationships: "I'm [24 F] on vacation without my boyfriend [33 M] because he missed his flight. Would it be wrong to live it up and ignore him for a few weeks?"
  6. Listener Apin'eht, Thorny Duelist: Sadistic Work Bully Update and How to Leave a Job Review Without Burning Bridges
  7. Kairluma, the Wonder of Haraka: Pink Bridesmaid Wedding Dress Update
  8. Advice Column Alert: "Baggage Check" on Washington Post
  9. Shoutout to Carolyn Hax & Ask Amy: "How to show solidarity with a recovering alcoholic"
  10. Shoutout to Is It Normal?: "My son wants to wear dresses and I'm scared for him"
  11. Shoutout to Ask Dotty: "How do I make my partner shut up while I'm watching my shows?"
  12. Social Q's Turns 10: Philip Reflects (CW: Suicide)

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