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Advice column aficionados Han and Matt re-answer the greatest questions from other advice columns and podcasts as well as fielding new questions with a little help from their cats.

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Jun 29, 2018

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of June 17th, 2018, and beyond, including:

  1. Carolyn Hax: "You have PTSD because you were abused. Don't beat yourself up."
  2. Ask a Manager: "my boss wants us to all share our mental health needs at every meeting"
  3. Dear Fuck-Up: "How do you live when everything sucks?"
  4. Savage Love: "His Wife Has Two Boyfriends and He's Got Squat"
  5. Care and Feeding: "My Kid Doesn't Want to Volunteer. Is She Hopelessly Selfish?"
    • #FellowKnowItAll Question: What do you think?
  6. Listener Lori: "Red Cross Is Guilt Tripping Me and I May Have Crossed a Line"
  7. Shoutout to You Need Help: "You’re Not Sure If You're a Boy and Gender Is Hard"
  8. Shout-out to Ask Amy: "Jogger wonders how to respond to street harassment"
  9. Advice Column Alert: "Advice From A Nice Girl" on Refinery29
  10. Happy Story About Polyamorous Relationship in the News
  11. Remira, Trouble Seeker's Thought on Friends' Mental Health

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