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Advice column aficionados Han and Matt re-answer the greatest questions from other advice columns and podcasts as well as fielding new questions with a little help from their cats.

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Sep 5, 2018

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of August 26th, 2018, and beyond, including:

  1. Ask a Manager: "our CEO challenged someone to eat dead bugs"
  2. Ask a Queer Chick: "How Do I Stop Accidentally Misgendering My Co-Worker?"
  3. Ask APW: "My Sister Just Came Out As Trans And Wants To Be My Bridesmaid"
  4. Dear Abby: "Teen's Flannel Shirts Become Focus Of Fight With Stepmom"
  5. Savage Love: "Swinger doesn't want to inadvertently fuck any Trump supporters."
  6. Captain Awkward: "Mom, you've had two weddings, let me have one!"
  7. The Ethicist: "If Two People Claim a Lost Cat Who Should Get It?"
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  9. The Raging Mist Vine: "How Can I Avoid Guys on Dating Apps Who Seem to Only Be Looking For Sex?"
  10. Anonymous Listener on Boomer Stereotyping
  11. New York Times: "Five Essential 'Dear Sugars' Episodes" (The End of Dear Sugars)
  12. Advice Column Alert: Dear Mishu
  13. Advice Column Alert: Sex Gets Real With Dawn Serra

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