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Advice column aficionados Han and Matt re-answer the greatest questions from other advice columns and podcasts as well as fielding new questions with a little help from their cats.

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Sep 12, 2018

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of September 2nd, 2018, and beyond, including:

  1. BONUS: Opinion Overflow LIVE!
  2. Ask a Manager: "HR wants our personal cell numbers in our out-of-office messages so we can always be contacted"
  3. Dear Mariella: "My boyfriend called me a slut now I dread seeing him"
  4. Asking For a Friend: "I Want to Explore Polyamory, My Partner Doesn't. What Should I Do?"
  5. Dear Abby: "Fiancee Wants Her Intended To Halt 'boys' Club' Culture"
  6. Baggage Check: "My girlfriend complains that I am 'no fun' after losing weight"
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  8. Listener Zaphrus Sabersong, Stalwart Mystic: "Is It Okay to Lie to My Grandmother About Having Reported Her to the DMV?"
  9. Update to the Nameless One's Question: "On Bodies, Weddings, and Chronic Illness (The POWER TRIO)
  10. Listener Rachel the Librarian Knows a Thing or Two About Attaining US Citizenship
  11. Shoutout to Care and Feeding: "Can I ask my newly out son to be less flamboyant at school so his little brother won’t get bullied?"
  12. Shoutout to Ask Amy: "The Other Woman Wants to Be the Only Woman"
  13. Shoutout to My Kid Is Gay: "How Do I Talk About Periods with My Non-Binary Kid?"
  14. Shoutout to Miss Manners: "Public confrontations: ineffective, counterproductive"
  15. Shoutout to Ask a Manager: "update: my dad is dating my boss, and they want me to go to couples therapy with them"
  16. Advice Column Alert: "The Activist Whisperer"on Lush

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