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Advice column aficionados Han and Matt re-answer the greatest questions from other advice columns and podcasts as well as fielding new questions with a little help from their cats.

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Sep 19, 2018

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of September 9th, 2018, and beyond, including:

  1. Ask a Manager: "my office has a mandatory feelings chart"
  2. The Ethicist: "What Should I Do With Old Racist Memorabilia?"
  3. Dear Prudence: "My Boyfriend Tricked Me Into Becoming Friends With His Other Girlfriend"
  4. r/relationships: "My [41/F] husband [41M] does not brush his teeth, and I'm at my wits end."
  5. Ask The Salty Waitress: "I need an exemption from this restaurant's cell-phone ban"
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  7. Listener Colenka the Saucy Rogue: "My Friend Keeps Bringing Her Boyfriend As a Plus One When He's Not Invited and How Do I Stop This?"
  8. Shoutout to Washington Post: "Brides are too afraid of being 'bridezilla' to ask for what they want"
  9. Shoutout to Slate: "I Gave Advice on a Hugely Popular Reddit Forum for a Week. If Only People Wanted My Answers."
  10. Shoutout to TV Guide: "Facebook Watch Tries to Go Legit with Sorry for Your Loss"
  11. Shoutout to The Guardian: "Think it feels like the end of the world? Try reading a self-help column"
  12. Shoutout to Well and Good: "Miss you already Dear Sugars: 5 life-changing lessons I learned from my favorite advice podcast"
  13. Shoutout to Care and Feeding: "I'm the white parent of a biracial child. How should I deal with his potential use of the N-word?"
  14. Shoutout to Savage Love: "She Didn't Actually Cheat—Almost Did, But Didn't—But Her Husband Is Sure She Will Cheat Sometime. So Why Not Punish Her Now?"
  15. Advice Column Alert: "The Q" on Project Q
  16. Advice Column Alert: "Dearly Beloved" on INTO
  17. Advice Column Alert: "The Pickle" on Slate

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