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Advice column aficionados Han and Matt re-answer the greatest questions from other advice columns and podcasts as well as fielding new questions with a little help from their cats.

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Oct 10, 2018

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of September 30th, 2018, and beyond, including:

  1. BONUS: Han's Tattoo on Their Tattoo Artist's Instagram (and Han's Instagram)
  2. Listener Skyler Elmridge, Ingenious Blacksmith: "Should We Put a Spot for Pronouns On Our Wedding Place Cards?"
  3. Listener Insert Name Here: "Am I a Bad Queer?"
  4. Listener Quarrius, Nimble Geomancer: "What More Can I Do to Help My Friend Who Keeps Facing Abusive Jobs Everywhere He Goes?"
  5. Listener Aephe, Stout Battlemage: "Should I Talk to My Dad Again?"
  6. Listener Yolanda, Cynosure of the Net: "Where Do I Find My Motivation Now That I'm No Longer Being Terrorized By a Cat?"
  7. SPONSOR: Podigy: The podcast editing service we partner proudly with!
  8. Listener Lady Lazor, Hufflepuff: "A Question of Bodies and Their Wonderful Variety!"
  9. Learning About Disabilities and Chronic Pain
  10. Listeners Weigh In On Gender Reveal Parties
  11. Children's Books Eschewing Gender Norms
  12. The Ocean Is Coming For You
  13. Advice Column Question Round-Up

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