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Advice column aficionados Han and Matt re-answer the greatest questions from other advice columns and podcasts as well as fielding new questions with a little help from their cats.

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Oct 24, 2018

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of October 14th, 2018, and beyond, including:

  1. Dear Abby: "Make Life Easy" (AKA The One In Which Abby Advocates White-Washing Your Future Offspring's Names)
  2. Ask Amy: "Moms say teen girls are 'asking for it'"
  3. Ask a Manager: "how do I tell an interviewer about my hobbies when my hobbies are kind of boring?"
  4. Carolyn Hax: "Hanging the No Boys Allowed sign at a public playground"
  5. Dear Wendy: "I Got Drunk and Made Vulgar Remarks About a Coworker and Now I'm Afraid to Go Back to Work"
  6. Dear Mariella: "My boyfriend lost his virginity to a sex worker then lied about it"
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  8. Listener Arkyn the Enduring: "Practical polyamory tips for dealing with jealousy and dating despair"
  9. Listener Dina Explains ABC in Australia
  10. Shoutout to NPR's Fresh Air: "What Would Eleanor Do? 'If You Ask Me' Revisits Roosevelt's Advice Columns"
  11. Shoutout to Allison Green on Savage Love: "Just A Cock Kraving Safety"
  12. Shoutout to Climate Advice: "I worry that climate change could bring malaria to the US Should I?"
  13. Shoutout to Beast Mode: "My Boyfriend's Cat Won't Let Me Pee in Peace"
  14. Shoutout to a Classic Miss Manners: "The Matchmaker's Blind Spot"
  15. Shoutout to Captain Awkward: "Personal Update" and a Plea to Vote
  16. Our Patron's Names (In Talk-to-Text translator form)

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