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Advice column aficionados Han and Matt re-answer the greatest questions from other advice columns and podcasts as well as fielding new questions with a little help from their cats.

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Oct 31, 2018

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of October 21st, 2018, and beyond, including:

  1. Carolyn Hax: "Your husband may be cranking the hostility to 11"
  2. Ask a Manager: "my employee keeps adjusting himself while were talking"
  3. Ask Dr. NerdLove: "When Do I Disclose My Mental Illness?"
  4. Ask APW: "Is The Sexism Of The Wedding Industry Mirrored In My Relationship?"
  5. Queer Abby: "I Think I'm A Lesbian But I Don't Fit The Stereotypes"
  6. SPONSOR: Podigy: The podcast editing service we partner proudly with!
  7. Listener Anxious Ace Asking After Amorous Advice: "What's An Asexual Panromantic To Do?"
  8. Opinion Overflow Live! on Facebook #3
  9. Spooky Patron Names:
    • Aephe, Gout Batty-Rage

    • Heldraga the Undead

    • Akinma, Burial Hell-a-Mentalist

    • Cynthea Moth-Man-Flurry

    • E, Eerie Sin-Sturgeon

    • Dhergo, Sordid Strangler

    • The "She Who Shall Not Be Named" One

    • Taphre, Renewed Cultist

    • Riecka the Executioner

    • The Phantom of Milkbay

    • Aurora, Even Darker Huntress

    • Xantar, Feared Aero-Not-Going-With-the-Obvious-Pun

    • Alana, Mutant Entrailblazer

    • Dr. Wrenwood, Rabid Feminist

    • Kavura, Killustrious Murderer

    • Lygeia, Conniving Basilisk

    • Tamisril, Drop Bear of The Land Down Under

    • Zelda Ambershine, Satan's Cerberus

    • Kahlmera, Revenant of The Milkbay DMV

    • Silnia Fearfangs

    • Azuriel, Golem of the Devil's Shank-Tuary

    • Musa the "Shirt That Needs Badly Ironed" Hearted

    • Ethemera of the Shade Massacre

    • Lady Margella III, Ghost Commander of Davy Jones' Pirate Ship

    • Kroval Zidarose, Unpaid Intern of Davy Jones' Pirate Ship

    • Orlahv, Wicked Witch

    • Kalvarin Ashmor, Hellhound Dirty Dancer

    • Nyori the Too Familiar Spirit

    • Feldaius, Plaguesmith of Hysteria Frights

    • Kaimura Coldplum, Whose Crimes Will Be Named, Finally, In Alphabetical Order:

      • Blocking the exit of the elevator at the end of the work day because you were too busy looking at your phone to notice the door had opened and this is definitely why I missed my train, Kaimura.

      • Helping yourself to the rest of MY oat milk in the work kitchen and acting like you thought it was communal oat milk and refusing to apologize, Kaimura.

      • Racism (probably).

      • Repeatedly misspelling our colleague's name in a work email that the entire department could see, when the name was RIGHT THERE and is the same name it has always been, Kaimura.

      • Taking loud and angry personal phone calls at your desk even though literally no one cares about the later-than-expected status of your Zappos order, KAIMURA.

    • Norgowyn, Gloomsayer of The Haunted Doll
    • Chromak, Demon of Gore-Boding
    • Holly Hellhunter, But, Like, a Hunter From Hell and Not a Hunter of Things From Hell, Y'Know?
    • Ludathius, 'Avatar' by M. Night Shyamalan
    • Zephyr Dawngazer, Helper of Doppelgängers

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