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Advice column aficionados Han and Matt re-answer the greatest questions from other advice columns and podcasts as well as fielding new questions with a little help from their cats.

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May 21, 2018

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of May 13th, 2018, and beyond, including:

  1. Ask a Manager: "My Boss Gave All the Women Flowers for Mother's Day"
  2. Interpersonal Skills: "How to enforce a "No Shoes" policy in my apartment?"
  3. Swipe This!: "How do I get away with refollowing a friend I unfollowed when I was upset?"
  4. Sense & Sensitivity: "Friend Might Be Gay"
  5. Let Us Sex-plain: "My Boyfriend Still Has Dating Apps"
  6. Listener Kairluma, the Wonder of Haraka: "I'm Wearing a Bridal Party Dress That I Don't Like; Can I Change Into a Different One For the Reception?"
  7. Listener The Nameless One: "On Bodies, Weddings, and Chronic Illness (The POWER TRIO)"
  8. BONUS: Shoutout to Social Q's: "'It's Not My Fault I'm White.' Sure, but That's Not the Point."
  9. BONUS: Shoutout to Alison Green on Dear Wendy: "Five Questions with Alison Green of 'Ask a Manager'"
  10. BONUS: Shoutout to Ask a Manager: "The 18-Month Coffee Debate, and Other Stories of Office Coffee Wars"
  11. BONUS: Imagine Dragons: "Blank Space/Stand By Me"

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