Preview Mode Links will not work in preview mode

Advice column aficionados Han and Matt re-answer the greatest questions from other advice columns and podcasts as well as fielding new questions with a little help from their cats.

Learn more at Han and Matt Know It All Dot Com.

Feb 13, 2017

Hannah and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of February 5th, 2017, including: 

  1. Dear Prudence: "Hate the house rules";
  2. MBMBaM: Didn't get invited to an orgy I don't want to go to;
  3. A Practical Wedding: "Can I Trust My Fiancée’s Relationship with Her Close (Male) Friend?";
  4. Savage Love: Girlfriend wants to try nonmonagamy but wants "heterosexual exclusivity" from me;
  5. Listener Question From 'Andre': How not to squander leftist political rage?
    1. Find local activist groups (search in Facebook groups, look on
    2. Call your representatives (state your position on policies and goings on, demand town halls and attend them)
    3. Stay informed (read the New York Times and other reputable news sites, avoid hyper-partisan clickbait sources)

Submit your favorite questions or questions you may have for the podcast to, anonymously at, or to for a Han-only written answer on

Looking to support us? Desperately in need of a fantastical alter-ego? You can become a Patreon supporter and donate to us monthly for all kinds of sweet perks!