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Advice column aficionados Han and Matt re-answer the greatest questions from other advice columns and podcasts as well as fielding new questions with a little help from their cats.

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Aug 21, 2017

Hannah and Matt take a vacation from the usual format to bring you the hotly-anticipated Poly 101 episode featuring Matt's girlfriend Laurel Lathrop! We're covering more questions than ever before, so strap yourselves in for the long journey to Ethicalnonmonogamyville:

  1. Listener V: "How Do I Navigate Exploring My Bisexuality While In an Ostensibly Heterosexual Primary Relationship?";
  2. Listener Sarah Manning: "I'm In My First Poly Relationship. Now What?";
  3. Listener Open Imbalance: "I'm a Bisexual Woman in an Open Relationship and Getting Way More Dates than My Straight Male Partner";
  4. Listener Laura: "How Do I Tell My Poly Friends to Stop Judging Monogamous Relationships and Erasing My Asexuality?";
  5. Raven Goldblood: "How Do You Go From an 'Open Relationship' to a Poly One?";
  6. Listener Magpie: "At What Point Should I Come Out to My Friends and Family as Poly?";
  7. BONUS: r/relationships: "My (24f) 5 year boyfriend (27m) opened up our relationship a year ago and now I'm confused about my feelings for him and just in general.";

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