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Advice column aficionados Han and Matt re-answer the greatest questions from other advice columns and podcasts as well as fielding new questions with a little help from their cats.

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Feb 6, 2019

Han and Matt make their return with a full batch of queer queeries and are joined by special guestpert, Nicole J. Georges AKA Queer Abby! We discuss queer impostor syndrome, being closeted for fear of bigoted parents, normalizing volunteering your pronouns, and more!

  1. Queer Abby
  2. [CW: Bi-Erasure, Queer Gatekeeping until 25 minute mark] Queer Abby: "I’m A Queer Snob"
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  4. Listener Closet Conundrum: "One Foot in the Closet"
  5. Listener Confused Queer: "Does My Bisexuality Count If I'm Not Having Same-Sex Sex?"
  6. Listener The Pestilent Drake: "Why is it so easy to tell others they're valid but feel yourself like you're an impostor in the community?"
  7. Listener The Marauding Wendigo: "Should I, a Cis-Gendered Person, Display My Pronouns In Support of the Queer Community?"
  8. Listener Angry Latin Queer: "We Had a Secret Gay Wedding Because Our Parents Are Homophobic and Now What Do We Do?"

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