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Advice column aficionados Han and Matt re-answer the greatest questions from other advice columns and podcasts as well as fielding new questions with a little help from their cats.

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Feb 13, 2019

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of February 3rd, 2019, and beyond, including:

    • Washington, DC, Busboys and Poets on K Street
    • March 16th, 6 PM - 10 PM
    • Facebook Event
  2. Ask Amy: "Boyfriend disappears into dark web"
    • There are, thankfully, a handful of games where you play as a black female protagonist, though that list does not include "Far Cry: New Dawn" (Source)
  3. Ask a Manager: "my boyfriend thinks only bad candidates prepare for interviews"
  4. Ask The Salty Waitress: "I accidentally called my female customer sir"
    • "Yinz" is actually short of "You Ones"
  5. Baggage Check: "My boyfriend is making me choose between him and my cats"
  6. Ask APW: "My Friend Bought Me A Used Wedding Gift That Cost $15"
  7. Dear Prudence: "Help! Our Millionaire Relatives Only Gave $30 as Wedding Gifts."
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  9. Listener Laura: "Should I Have Waited Longer For My Late Date to Show Up?"
  10. Shoutout to The Texanist: "Has PC Culture Tamed the Texanists Tongue?"
  11. Shoutout to Slate's Dear Mother Goose: "An Advice Column for Children's Books Characters"
  12. Shoutout to Vice ft. Lola Phoenix of the Advice Column Nonmonogamy Help: "The Truth About Jealousy in Polyamorous Relationships"
  13. Shoutout to Dear Wendy (Who Just Turned EIGHT!): "I'm in a Polyamorous Marriage and I'm Anxious About My Boyfriends Abusive Ex"
  14. Shoutout to Savage Love: "Where Can a Bisexual Woman Find a Bisexual Woman? Bisexual Twitter Is Here to Help!"
  15. Shoutout to Getting in Bed With Kristin: "Religion & Queerness Slowly Transitioning and a New Kitten!"
  16. Shoutout to LA Magazine: "How Heather Havrilesky Became the Advice Guru Behind 'Ask Polly'"
  17. Shoutout to Dan Savage in the New York Times: "Jeff Bezos, Please Release Your Dirty Selfies"
  18. Advice Column Alert: "How to Do It" on Slate
  19. Advice Column Alert: "Dear Talia" on Alma
  20. Advice Column Alert: "Crazy Talk" on Healthline

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