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Advice column aficionados Han and Matt re-answer the greatest questions from other advice columns and podcasts as well as fielding new questions with a little help from their cats.

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Mar 6, 2019

Han and Matt write a love letter to Reddit Relationships and have the honor of interviewing moderator Alex "ResidentBlackGuy" Spruiell! During the interview portion of the show, they discuss how Alex became a moderator, what makes r/relationships the best subreddit for advice, the worst partner so far of 2019, and much more!

  1. ResidentBlackGuy
  2. SPONSOR: LOLA: The female-founded company offering a line of organic cotton tampons, pads, liners, and now: sex products!
  3. [BONUS Discussion for $5 and up patrons] #100: The Best & Worst Advice Column Humans of 2018 (Ft. Ask a Manager and Captain Awkward): Partners Category
  4. [BONUS Discussion for $5 and up patrons] r/relationships: "My [22F] boyfriend [24M] cut the tip of his finger OFF as a "joke" for my Valentine’s Day gift."
  5. Reddit Relationships in Three Nutshells
  6. Listener The Tireless Mind Flayer: "My [46F] girlfriend of 3 months won't invite me [49M] over to her house"
  7. SPONSOR: Podigy: The podcast editing service we partner proudly with!
  8. Advice Column Alert: "Who's the Asshole Here?" on Lifehacker
  9. Shoutout to John Paul Brammer on Columbia Journalism Review: "The Advice Column Renaissance"
  10. Shoutout to Yolanda, Cynosure of the Net (AKA The Golden One) for our first P.O. Box Gift at our New Address
    • And an additional shoutout to Aephe, Stout Battlemage, for sending us AN ENTIRE BOXFUL OF LOVE HEARTS CANDIES
  11. Shoutout to Broadway World: "TINY BEAUTIFUL THINGS at Long Wharf"
  12. Shoutout to Dear Dabby: "How Do I Work in Weed?" In Cannabis Now
  13. Shoutout to Ask the Salty Waitress: "My food came out suspiciously early" for Sounding Like an Onion Headline
  14. Shoutout to Ask a Manager: "my coworker is setting toilet paper on fire in the bathroom"

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