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Advice column aficionados Han and Matt re-answer the greatest questions from other advice columns and podcasts as well as fielding new questions with a little help from their cats.

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Mar 13, 2019

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of March 3rd, 2019, and beyond, including:

    • Washington, DC, Busboys and Poets on K Street
    • March 16th, 6 PM - 10 PM
    • Facebook Event
  2. [CW: Fat-Shaming] r/relationship_advice: "Boyfriend [25M] told me he used to ask out "fat girls" for fun. Am I [22F] right to be disgusted by him?"
  3. Dear Prudence: "Help! I Caught My Day Care Provider Breastfeeding My Baby."
  4. Carolyn Hax: "Should a single try to burst her friend's couple bubble?"
  5. Dear Wendy: "I Kissed My Friend And My Boyfriend Called It Cheating!"
  6. Ask a Manager: "my boss sent my client a flirty message from my email account"
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  9. [CW: Self-Harm, Disordered Eating] Listener Kalvarin Ashmore, Renowned Euphomancer: "How Do I Teach Myself That a Relapse in My Mental Health Isn't an Indication of Failure?"
  10. Shoutout to Hola Papi!: "I'm Straight-Acting and I Don’t Know Where I Fit In"
  11. Shoutout to Alison Green on Slate: "The Guy Who Hid Tacos in His Desk Drawer" or "Why do people go so nuts over free food at work?"
  12. Shoutout to Ask Polly: "Is My Absence From Social Media a Red Flag?"
  13. Shoutout to Ask Ann Cannon: "How can I dial back on digital life?"
  14. Shoutout to 'Cat Person' Author Kristen Roupenian Who "Discusses New Book at Harvard Book Store"
  15. Shoutout to Ask The Salty Waitress: "Our restaurant's repetitive music is ruining my workday"

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