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Advice column aficionados Han and Matt re-answer the greatest questions from other advice columns and podcasts as well as fielding new questions with a little help from their cats.

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Mar 27, 2019

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of March 17th, 2019, and beyond, including:

    • San Francisco Meetup: May 19th, time/location tbd
    • Portland Meetup: May 27th, time/location tbd
    • Seattle Meetup: May 30th, time/location tbd
  2. Work Friend: "After Servicing a Home Can I Get Paid to Service My Clients Other Needs?"
  3. Ask a Manager: "my team got matching tattoos ... and other lack of boundaries at my start-up"
  4. [CW: Fat-Shaming] Sense and Sensibility: "It's OK to talk to friend about weight gain"
  5. [CW: Fat-Shaming] Dear Prudence: "Help! I Think My Co-Worker's Weight Is Impeding Her Career. Should I Say Something?"
  6. Dear Pepper: "Doggedly Pursuing Someone"
  7. Ask Amy: "Erotic fiction turns into catfishing reality"
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  9. Listener Telreshi, Domesticator of Demons: "I Need Help With Micro-Transphobia!"
  10. Shoutout to Ask Amy: "Parent worries about son's Michael Jackson fandom"
  11. Shoutout to Blair Braverman for Being the Second Jewish Woman Ever to Finish the Iditarod
  12. Shoutout to Judge John Hodgman on "Unsanctioned Cat Nicknames"
  13. Shoutout to Carolyn Hax: "It's a special therapists-behaving-badly edition"
  14. Shoutout to Ask A Native New Yorker: "Why Do New Yorkers Complain So Much?"
  15. Shoutout to Dear Abby: "He Dumped Me and Now Wants to Cheat with Me"
  16. Listener The Fiendish Salamander Has Some Kind Words For Us

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