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Advice column aficionados Han and Matt re-answer the greatest questions from other advice columns and podcasts as well as fielding new questions with a little help from their cats.

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May 8, 2019

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of April 28th, 2019, and beyond, including:

    • San Francisco Meetup: May 19th, time/location tbd
    • Portland Meetup: May 27th, time/location tbd
    • Seattle Meetup: May 30th, time/location tbd
  2. [CW: Self-Harm] Ask a Manager: "What to say if a coworker asks about my self harm scars"  
  3. Dear Prudence: "I'm in a Happy Relationship With My Boyfriend but I Still Want to Date Women"
  4. SPONSOR: care/of: A monthly subscription vitamin service that delivers completely personalized vitamin and supplement packs right to your door!
  5. Ask Dr. NerdLove: "Do I Have To Agree to An Open Relationship?"
  6. How to Do It: "A Nice Guy Suddenly Said Awful Things to Me During Sex"
  7. SPONSOR: LOLA: The female-founded company offering a line of organic cotton tampons, pads, liners, and now: sex products
  8. Carolyn Hax: "Bigfoot, the yeti, the Loch Ness Monster — and the soul mate"
  9. Listener The Dauntless Badger: "Should I Get Back in Touch With My Mother Who Abandoned Me When I Was Three?"
  10. SPONSOR: Podigy: The podcast editing service we partner proudly with!
  11. Listener Zerrek, Peacekeeper of Otopo Update: "Should I Get a Cat?"  
  12. Shoutout to Ask a Manager: "why can't I wear shorts to work?"
  13. Expanding Your Religious Holiday Knowledge  
  14. We Now Know Who Patrick Is!  
  15. Advice Column Alert: "Poetry Rx"

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