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Advice column aficionados Han and Matt re-answer the greatest questions from other advice columns and podcasts as well as fielding new questions with a little help from their cats.

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Jun 19, 2019

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of June 9th, 2019, and beyond, including:

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  2. Ask Ellie: "Wife's request for quiet time 'mindless' TV watching confounds husband"
  3. Ask Ellie: "My true love might walk away because of my ex's meddling"
  4. Carolyn Hax: "My pregnant friend's husband needs to shut up already about her weight gain"
  5. Ask a Manager: "I ran into my new boss in the apartment of my one-night stand"
  6. Ask Dr. NerdLove: "What Do I Do About My Irresponsible Boyfriend?"
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  8. r/AITA: "AITA for flirting with 19 year old girls and defending myself when being called a predator."
  9. Listener N: "My Wife's Crush and Mine"
  10. Shoutout to Zoya AKA Zoe Fenson on APW: "I'm A Feminist Killjoy—And My Husband Loves it"
  11. Shoutout to Ask Real Estate: "Can a Building Charge You for Bedbugs?"
  12. Shoutout to Miss Manners: "Let’s all shake hands instead"
  13. Shoutout to Ask a Manager: "what tools help you focus on work when you’re in a loud or distracting environment?"

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