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Advice column aficionados Han and Matt re-answer the greatest questions from other advice columns and podcasts as well as fielding new questions with a little help from their cats.

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Nov 28, 2018

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of November 18th, 2018, and beyond, including:

  1. Carolyn Hax: "By using fake online profiles to dig up dirt, mother shows her true face"
  2. Dear Abby: "Women's Opposing Viewpoints Could Doom Couple's Future"
  3. Miss Conduct: "How to say 'No presents please'"
  4. Savage Love: "New Next Door Neighbors Force Woman to Watch Them Fight, Fuck, Shit, Trim Pubes"
  5. Ask a Manager: "parents in my office are sticking non-parents with all the holiday coverage"
  6. Baggage Check: "My sister-in-law won't stop trying to rope me into her cosmetics-sales scheme"
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  8. Listener Light: Listener Machete Alice: "I'm Back! And Looking for Advice On the Upcoming Major Steps In My Life"
  9. Shoutout to Mother Jones: "A Question About All Those Angry Uncles"
  10. Shoutout to GQ: "This Thanksgiving Just Do The Dishes"
  11. Shoutout to Dear Prudence: "Help! I'm in a Happy Hetero Marriage but I'm Also Bisexual. Can I Stay in the Closet?"
  12. Shoutout to Ask a Manager: "Can I Read Erotica On Work Breaks?"
  13. Shoutout to Damage Control: "My husband’s support for Trump is poisoning our marriage. Should I get a divorce?"

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