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Advice column aficionados Han and Matt re-answer the greatest questions from other advice columns and podcasts as well as fielding new questions with a little help from their cats.

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Dec 12, 2018

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of December 2nd, 2018, and beyond, including:

  1. Ask The Salty Waitress: "How do I tell a friend to keep their kids away from my party?"
  2. Dear Prudence: "Help! A Distant Friend Asked Me to Describe My Genitals Over Text"
  3. Tough Love: "Only You Can Prevent Single-People Problems"
  4. Asking for a Friend: "Your Ex Sucks but Capitalism Sucks More"
  5. Carolyn Hax: "An abusive ex is terminally ill. Should you help with his care?"
  6. Dear Mishu: "I want to cry but no tears will come. What do I do? Rose asks Mishu answers"
  7. Reddit Round-Up
  8. SPONSOR: Podigy: The podcast editing service we partner proudly with!
  9. Update from Listener Mara the Raven Mistress
    • "How Do We Open Up Our Marriage for Casual Sex and Remain Totally Discreet About It?" from Episode 93
  10. Feedback from Listener Hannah on Episode 97's Talk of Sick Days
  11. Shoutout to Savage Love: "I'M SICK OF THIS QUESTION"
  12. Shoutout to Dear Fifi: "Climate Change Anxiety"
  13. Shoutout to Queer Abby: "How To Handle Closed-Minded Family During the Holidays"
  14. Shoutout to Care and Feeding: "My Daughter Can't Take the Clingy Little Boy Who Says Shes His Girlfriend"

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