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Advice column aficionados Han and Matt re-answer the greatest questions from other advice columns and podcasts as well as fielding new questions with a little help from their cats.

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Mar 20, 2019

Han and Matt were so excited to be joined by the one and only Brandy "Ask a Fuck-Up" Jensen! You may have seen her Tweets cited on every single topic on every single news outlet, and you'll be relieved to know that Brandy's brilliance is actually and rightfully rewarded monetarily on The Outline where she answers questions every week on one of the only good things to come out of 2018. Here's what we discussed:

  1. Ask a Fuck-Up
  2. The Outline: "I Can't Tweet for One Week and It's Killing Me"
  3. Brandy Tweeting About Advice Columns
  4. AAFU: "With special guest Neko Case"
  5. AAFU: "I'm not as smart as everyone said I was"
  6. AAFU: "Can people change?"
  7. AAFU: "I'm still in therapy. Should I be dating?"
  8. SPONSOR: Podigy: The podcast editing service we partner proudly with!
  9. Listener The Cyan Satyr: "How Do I Get Back into the Groove After a Traumatic Health Setback?"
  10. Shoutout to Ask a Manager: "our new manager is pressuring the women on our team to use menstrual cups"
  11. Shoutout to Ask Amy: "Phone use at concert not music to their ears"
  12. Shoutout to Ask a Native New Yorker on Gothamist, Who Now Has a Book!
  13. Shoutout to Sexual Healing: "I met my girlfriend’s parents – and realised I once slept with her father"
  14. Advice Column Alert: "Yours in Tenacity, Miri"

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