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Advice column aficionados Han and Matt re-answer the greatest questions from other advice columns and podcasts as well as fielding new questions with a little help from their cats.

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Dec 19, 2018

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of December 9th, 2018, and beyond, including:

  1. SPONSOR: A Head Canon Productions Ruins Christmas (Soundcloud)
  2. Ask a Manager: "An employee’s spouse emailed about his holiday bonus"
  3. Miss Manners: "No need to tip for a tweet"
  4. Social Q's: "If You Can’t Stop Name-Dropping, You’re Not Coming Skiing This Year"
  5. Dear Abby: "Man Retiring From The Military Deploys New Rules In Marriage"
  6. Swipe This!: "My ex is thriving on Instagram—and its making me miserable"
  7. Dear Prudence: (CW: Sexual Assualt) "Sleeping Pills and Consent
  8. SPONSOR: Podigy: The podcast editing service we partner proudly with!
  9. Listener Nicole: "When Is It Appropriate to Disclose Mental Health Diagnoses With Your Boss?"
  10. Update to Listener Uldrek the Resilient: "Should My Partner and I Open Our Relationship to Date Our Best Friends (Who Are Also Partners)?"
  11. Listener The Bronze Leviathan Has Thoughts on Extramarital Affairs
  12. Shoutout to Ask APW: "Can I Fire My Bridesmaid for Not Making Me Hers?"
  13. Shoutout to PR Newswire: "Acclaimed 'Ask Amy' advice-columnist and author Amy Dickinson to receive 2019 Horatio Alger Award"
  14. Shoutout to Savage Love: "His brother 'stumbled over' his Tumblr sex blog and shared it with their parents."

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