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Advice column aficionados Han and Matt re-answer the greatest questions from other advice columns and podcasts as well as fielding new questions with a little help from their cats.

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Apr 23, 2018

Han and Matt interviewed the extremely qualified Kristin Russo for the Monday episode and tackled listener queeries on bisexuality, asexuality, presenting queer, and more!:

  1. Kristin Russo
  2. Listener Simon, Leaver of Expensive Thermoses on Public Transit: "How Do I Respond to People Who Are Hellbent on Erasing My Bi Identity?"
  3. Listener The Invisible Bi: "How Do I Dress Queer So That My Bisexuality Isn't Invisible?"
  4. Listener Decidedly Anonymous: "Who Should I Come Out to In My Family, and How?"
  5. Listener Ursial the Cyclone: "How Do I Come Out as Asexual and Aromantic to My Mother, Who Wants Grandkids?"
  6. Listener Pissed Off Trans Lesbian: "Should I Invite My Probably Transphobic Uncle to My Wedding?"
  7. Listener Mary, Veiled Reckoner: "What's the Best Non-Gendered Honorific to Use When Addressing Strangers?"
  8. BONUS'Assigned Male' Comic: A Trans Resource
  9. BONUS 2: 'Questionable Content' Comic

Additionally: there will be a Patreon-only bonus question featuring Kristin Russo that was sent to us by Listener Ezavul, Angel of Mending: "How Do I Explain What Nonbinary Gender Is to My Very Catholic Parents?"

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