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Advice column aficionados Han and Matt re-answer the greatest questions from other advice columns and podcasts as well as fielding new questions with a little help from their cats.

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Nov 21, 2018

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of November 4th, 2018, and beyond, including:

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  2. Carolyn Hax: "Family doesn't support a single woman’s desire to adopt"
  3. Ask a Manager: "I overshared with my office about a Tinder date and it didn't work out"
  4. Dear Prudence: "Help! My Cousin Is Taking Advantage of My Mom to Get Free Child Care." [SLATE PLUS]
  5. Work Friend: "How to Ask Someone Out at Work"
  6. Sense & Sensitivity: "Parent worries son wearing nail polish is gay"
  7. Miss Manners: "Next time, treat contagious clerk with compassion"
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  9. Listener Light: "How Do I Confront My Datefriend Who Started Ghosting Me and Secretly Seeing Someone Else?"
  10. Update from Awful Anaconda on Church Abuser
  11. Shoutout to Queer Abby: "How Do I Encourage My Partner To Start Therapy?"
  12. Shoutout to the Old Debunked Myth: "Does wedding rice really hurt birds?"
  13. Shoutout to "Dear Abby's grandson, Dean Phillips, wins seat in Congress"
  14. Shoutout to Captain Awkward: "How to get through USA election night? #BELATED"
  15. Shoutout to Beast Mode: "My Cat Has an Eating Disorder. What Should I Do?"
  16. Shoutout to Dear Abby: "Dad Threatens To Disown Son If He Digs Into Family History"
  17. Shoutout to Dear Crabby: "Cheesed off after waiting 20 minutes for cheese plate"

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